Below, you will find a devotion from our Bishop on forgiveness. It was in the newsletter from the conference this week, and I wanted to share it with you. Pastor Burt
SOME THOUGHTS ABOUT FORGIVENESS
Do you want joy and contentment in your life? Then learn how to forgive. The
capacity to forgive cracks open your heart and allows God to do the deeper
work of not only forgiving your sins—but helping you live a righteous life.
The call to forgive other people is a central message in the Bible. Joseph
forgave his brothers for selling him into slavery. Moses forgave the Israelites for
their stiff-necked rebellion. David forgave Saul for trying to kill him. And Jesus
told us to pray for us to be forgiven in the same way we forgive others.
A woman was delightful in her youth but became bitter with age. As a young
woman, she was engaged to be married, but her fiancé ran off with her sister
three days before the wedding day. The pain was overwhelming, and she never
recovered. But she could have—if she had followed the way of Jesus, who
prayed from the cross:
“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34)
It’s easier to forgive others after they stop hurting us, but Jesus forgave his
killers while they were still killing him. God may permit us to suffer deeply, so
that we can learn to forgive deeply, because his purpose is to make us like
Jesus.
Forgiveness is choosing not to punish the person who hurt you, but Jesus
taught us to do even more. Jesus said:
“Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.” (Luke 6:28)
This is the best and surest way to recover from hurt—pray for those who hurt
us. Over the years, I’ve often prayed something like this:
“Father, I forgive <insert name> for what they did to hurt me. Would you give
them a double portion of your grace? Bless their relationship with you. Bless
their marriage and children. Bless their spiritual life so that they may perfectly
love you. Bless them in ways that grow their relationship with and witness for
you. Amen.”
It works! Before long—you’ll find that you’ve not only forgiven them, but God
has blessed you! The most beautiful people aren't those who have never
experienced hurt, but those who have suffered deeply and learned to forgive.
Do you want joy and contentment in life? Learn to forgive, my friends!
Bishop Jeff Greenway
Christ Church Gastonia is a steadfast Christian community, a part of the Global Methodist movement. We strive to give glory to God our Creator; to be His hands and feet through service to others; and to connect with the local and global communities through witness of Jesus' love. Our strategy is to prepare people for ministry through dynamic worship, vital community outreach, life-changing small group study, and joyful Christian fellowship.